人生得意，可歌可贺；人生失意，亦需善待。人生难免不如意，要每个人的一生中，随时都会碰上湍流和险境，如果低下头来，看到的只是险恶与绝望，在眩晕之中失去了生命的斗志。就使自己坠入地狱里。而如果我们若能抬头，看到的则是一片辽远的天空，那是一个充满了希望的并让我们飞翔的天地。
Life is happy, but song is congratulatory; life is frustrated, also need to be kind. Life is hard to avoid unhappiness. Everyone will encounter turbulence and danger at any time in his or her life. If he or she looks down, he or she will only see danger and despair and lose his or her fighting spirit in vertigo. And you're going to fall into hell. If we can look up, we will see a distant sky, which is full of hope and let us fly.
人生像是一条水流，历史就像是融合了许多水流的大江。你无法离开大江，但你又发现大江里布下了一些礁石，大江上或有着狂风，江水流着流着会出现急剧的转弯、急剧的下降和攀升，以及歧路和迷宫。
Life is like a stream, and history is like a big river with many streams. You can't leave the big river, but you find that there are some reefs in the big river. There may be strong winds on the big river. When the river is flowing, there will be sharp turns, sharp drops and climbs, as well as branches and mazes.
人生好像一艘船，世界好像大海，人自身好像是开船的舵手，思想的倾斜与时代的选择好像时而变化着走向的水流、或大或小的风。
Life is like a ship, the world is like the sea, man himself is like the helmsman of the ship, the inclination of thought and the choice of the times are like the current, or the big or small wind that changes from time to time.
在成长、学习、工作、生活诸事中，我们不可能花好月圆，一帆风顺，而没有失意和挫折。总会遇到这样那样的、或多或是少的失意，如考试失利，仕途无望，商海折兵等。倘若我们在失意时浑浑噩噩的、一蹶不振，只会失意又丧志，最后亲手葬送了自己的前程。而失意的过程往往就是获得真知的过程，如果我们从中分析原因，吸取教训，完善自己，避免今后再走相同的或相似的弯路，那你已实实在在地踏上了成功的路。
In growth, study, work, life and other things, we can not spend a good month, smooth sailing, without frustration and setbacks. There will always be such and such failures, more or less failures, such as failure in examinations, hopelessness in official career, failure in business, etc. If we don't know what to do when we are frustrated, we will only be frustrated and frustrated. At last, we will personally ruin our future. And the process of frustration is often the process of gaining true knowledge. If we analyze the causes, learn from them, improve ourselves, and avoid the same or similar detours in the future, then you have actually embarked on the road of success.
其实，失意不是人的必需，而是人的必经。因为不经风雨怎见彩虹，你没受过风浪的冲击，你的意志就得不到锻炼，心灵就蕴携不了艰难困苦的洗礼。俗话说"大树底下长不出好草"。任何一个人想成就一番事业，就须迎击生活风浪，笑傲风云，因为有挫折才会奋起，有失意才会求荣。不要因一次挫折而折断人生奋进的脊梁，也不要为一次的失意而放弃人生的追求，而应"吃一堑长一智"，在痛苦的磨难和调整中向新目标冲刺。
In fact, disappointment is not a necessity, but a necessity. Because without wind and rain how to see the rainbow, you have not been the impact of the wind and waves, your will will will not get exercise, the heart will not carry the baptism of hardship. As the saying goes, there is no good grass under a big tree;. Anyone who wants to achieve a career must face the waves of life, smile and be proud of the situation. Only when there is a setback can he rise and only when there is a disappointment can he seek glory. Don't break the backbone of life's progress because of a setback, and don't give up the pursuit of life because of a setback. Instead, we should take a cut and gain wisdom and rush to new goals in the painful tribulation and adjustment.
面对失意，不能失志。燕子去了，有再来的时候；杨柳枯了，有再绿的时候，桃花谢了，有再开的时候……调整自己的心态和情绪，扬起前进的风帆，校正人生的坐标和航线，重新寻找和把握机会，找到自己的位置，自己的光源，自己的声音……创伤就是前进的动力，挫折就是生命的财富。
In the face of disappointment, one cannot lose his will. When swallows go, there will be another time; when willows are withered, there will be another green time, peach blossom will be withered, there will be another time Adjust their own mentality and emotions, set sail forward, correct the coordinates and routes of life, find and grasp the opportunity again, find their own position, their own light source, their own voice Trauma is the driving force of progress, and frustration is the wealth of life.